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Ty introduced me to the idea moving energy in the body back when we were in Peru, and I’ve always wanted to try it.

A couple days ago, he says he’s learned to achieve “braingasm”, where he just relaxes (sometime with a toke), allows himself to be receptive, builds up energy, give a squeeze down there, and was able to get an orgasm! Without ejaculating.

I was curious.

Earlier that day, we went for a run. It was a bit much for me, and being so out of breath made me feel like I’ve opened a chakra haha

This morning, I woke up at 6:55am.

I decided to try braingasm.

Even though it was my first time, I was feeling this out and developing my own approach. It was fun!

I focused on blood flow. The easiest parts to get the blood to are my hands. I felt my hands warm up.

I was very aware of the comfortable bedsheets. I feel that helps. That sense of touch.

I tried bringing the blood flow to the bottom of my feet but they lacked the contact with the bed so it was a bit harder.

I tried bringing the blood flow to my lips. And that helped. It was very subtle as I’m new at this, but that brought on a mini braingasm!

It took maybe 15 minutes to get there.

It was small, but I know I had one because I suddenly let out a moan and some giggles.

The potential of this fascinates me!

I thought about its ability to increase the flow of my “Chi”. Increase blood flow to my brain. Unblock the blocked chi. Heal my endometriosis and left hip. Get full body orgasm without thinking about porn!

I thought about how, the most advanced form of this would be the ability to change shape. Start out with brining more blood flow to the boobs haha, then, learn that we are more than just blood, we are energy, and we can change the shape of that energy!

But I’ll master my blood flow and my chi first.

I feel like I could be Magneto. Or a blood bender. Hahahhaa

Oh this is so fun.

I really enjoy having Ty in my life and our relationship exactly as it is right now. I hope it continues this way! 🙂

A good dating app has your interest at heart. It wants you to succeed. It wants you to get what you want while making sure it’s good for you for the long term. It wants to minimize hurt feelings from mismatches.

Idea:

Approach as a relationship psychiatrist or counselor would.

1. First, an evaluation of mental health
2. Second, an evaluation of the dating health and IQ
3. Third, an understanding of their dating history, such as quantity, duration, quality, reason for break up, how long have been single, age / time of their life in terms of what they might want in a relationship and in terms of what they want to focus on right now (career? marriage? kids?)
4. A deep understanding of what the person wants, not just short term, long term.. Perhaps with suggestions so it’s a bit more guided. e.g. choose from templates of type of relationships, or multiple choices of different aspects of the relationship one wants.

Questionnaire ideas:

On his birthday, what would you do for him?

On your birthday, what would you do for him?

On your anniversary, what would you do together?

What is a typical day / date  like with your boyfriend / husband / casual guy?

What activities would you do together?

 

Matching ideas:

User can dial up or down (maybe 0 to 5) the importance of each relationship aspect or character traits, as well as overall match % (more exact match or more lineant)

 

I think I need to plan week by week to make real progress this quarter.

Today, I’m going to print out my new daily mantra:

I am 1000% ready and excited for today! Another magical day!

I am smart. I am efficient. I get stuff done!

Everything I desire, comes true.

I pull together all my manifesting powers, and take a solid stride towards a 7-figure income.

Health, wealth, and love are abundant to me, and people I care about.

Prioritization:

1. Amazon sales – this includes optimizing Amazon listings, ads, and working with Elevate.
2. Etsy sales – optimize listing and ads
3. Website sales – there’s a lot to do here, with potential big gains, but more work than all the other. I’ll focus on it next month. This include FB, IG, Pinterest feed and ads, blog, website reorganization, Tiktok influencer outreach.
4. Engraving

Prioritization for today and tomorrow:

This weekend things to get done:

1. Hand photos maybe videos of Bunny for SCF and CF Black
2. v Get from Elena: most popular 3 BCF 4, 6, 8mm, and CF 2, 4, 6mm
3. Ring videos for Northern Lights, Stackables, and StepEdge.
4. Plan out optimized listing ingredients and get started on them (Amazon and Etsy)

Next week:

1. CF 2~8mm and BCF videos.
2. Start on optimizing Amazon store front

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Instead of doing the above on the weekend, I majorly updated knotheory.com.

 

 

 

✅ down load Jay’s latest file and add this check mark. and shorten the bullets

make sure the new rings have ads running

• ENHANCED BREATHABILITY–  24/7 comfort & airflow. Smooth, no moisture-trapping grooves.
• NO FINGER-MUFFIN-TOP – Ergonomic design to make you look good feel good.
• BEST OF BOTH WORLDS – Looks like sleek metal rings, feels like not wearing pants. Win-win!
• WEAR THE BEST – Durable, quality construction. High performance. Pinch-free. Callus-free.
• PERFECT FIT PROMISE – We take care of your fit so you can fully experience your Knot Theory rings.

Wow, time flies. I’m 40.5 years old now.

At current trajectory, I’ll be doing 6 figure months this Xmas for sure.

1. Step Edge rings are arriving in about a week
2. Sales started to perform better than ever, with many days > 110 units (>$2000) on Amazon US + Amazon CA ($56k/month), > $500 in sales on Etsy ($8.5k/month), and knotheory.com doing around $5k/month, about $1k/month in Amazon EU. Overall doing about $70k/month the past 30 days. $65k/month the previous month. Just a few months ago we were doing around $48K/month.
3. But as of 6 days ago I switched to Elevate from Sellerlabs. Ads were turned on as of Friday, and I saw a sales drop right away. They did warn that, but I wasn’t expecting such a huge sales and profit drop (20% less sales, 30% less profit). Could be other factors too. e.g. there were many returns yesterday.
4. Hired a new VA, Ariane.

I have done a lot this year. I’m critical of myself, but really, I’ve done a lot. Even my critical self is secretly applauding haha.

I love my place. I love the view, the layout, the floors, my furniture, my plants (finally got all the bamboos!), my balcony, my trampoline, and my dark carpets even (tracked lots of soil onto it haha)!

I love having everything all tidied up either in the evening or morning. The place is so beautiful I want to keep it that way.

I think eventually I’ll want to move to a less noisy place, and a place where I don’t smell my neighbour doing molding laundry or their cooking (hit or miss) or cigarettes. Oh and less sun exposure (or, have the entire floor so I can move around).

Right now, everything has shut down and BC Place is just a piece of beautiful architecture. The traffic is still noisy, but I know it’ll get worse when things go back to normal.

Still, I wish that would happen soon. Mainly because, I have investments in malls. Sigh.

Ever since John came into my life, I feel that I’ve lost so much money and I have been more stressed out. Over stocks. Over him.

Overall, he’s just been such a negative thing in my life. There’s very little about him that is special that I must be with him. He is special, but not in ways that I appreciate.

I really don’t know what to do about him.

I have faith that things will work out for the better. For him and for me.

My investments are tied up. I don’t know if I would’ve made more or less if I never met him and never touched my stocks. But, I don’t want to dig into it to find out.

Mom lost a lot of money because of him…or, because of me relaying the info…but it’s her decisions after all. I feel like blaming him…but it’s not really his fault. Never intentionally anyway.

Ok, so, we’ve covered love and wealth.

Next, I want talk about health, and the future (happiness, fulfillment, influence, fame, control, manifestation).

I have some discoveries about my health:

1. Lots of sugar or carbs (e.g. lots of fries) make me feel bad physically (tired) and irritable even angry.
2. Sucralose makes me feel bad too. I think lazy and physically shitty the next day. I think it effects my nerves.
3. Cold showers make me happy
4. I have low blood pressure. Probably the reason why I sometimes need to lie down. This is a subject to dive deep into. It relates to autoimmune conditions, thyroid, diabetes, adrenals.
5. Acne is diabetes of the skin
6. Salt water seems to help me feel better and not need naps
7. Thyroid supplement also helps me feel and not need naps
8. Being out of breath during exercise is good for me. Makes me feel alive too.
9. My subconsciousness is influenced quite effectively by words I read. I can leverage this by reading positive words often!
10. Foot massage makes me feel better. Gets rid of jet lag or swollen discomfort that I sometimes get.
11. Fasting for 3 days feels shitty. I suspect it’s dehydration (which lowers my blood pressure).
12. I’m probably bad at controlling my blood sugar. A good diet, exercise, less stress, and good sleep are important.
13. Spotted prawn head soup seemed to make me feel good. Chitin? Calcium and other minerals? Cholesterol?
14. Either bioflavanoids + Vit C or cold showers have made my heavy period lighter.
15. I’m fat right now likely because I didn’t exercise during not-so-successful face acid peel. I’ll change that. I’ll get fit.
16. After so many attempts to take singular supplements, getting side effects such as headaches or mood issues (Vit A), I’ve decided to focus on natural supplements and high quality food.

I have forgotten that I have the ability to manifest! I won’t take all the credits. I want to thank all my gods for allowing me to live in my dream place!

I want to hone and maximize my ability to manifest. I am limitless.

I’m more successful than some, and less successful than some. That will never change.

I’m happy with where I am now, and I’m hungry to achieve even more!

I’m not going to place a glass ceiling on myself. I’m going to break through, and have a great, happy, fulfilled life. I also want to impact humanity positively.

The world is my oyster!

There’s so much I want to do.

I need more energy and focus. I’m working on these things, so that’s great!

What makes me happy? Being in love. I’ve never really been with someone that I truly love. I want to experience that. I want to be loved. I want to love. I want to be in this amazing, happy, love-filled awesome relationship.

What makes me feel fulfilled? When I create something very cool, very popular. When I level up. When I am an elite. When I get rewarded for it all.

Influence. I want influence. Influence makes everything easier. Gaining influence requires losing some freedom. I’m still thinking through how to make it work in a way that I like. I like freedom and I like influence. I’m sure there’s a happy medium for me.

Fame, same.

Control. I think most people workout to gain control. I don’t. But I do like having control. That’s why I don’t want kids. You can control what type of kids you get. That’s why it feels good to decorate and clean up the house. To dream up and design my future, the path I take, the businesses I create. That’s how I show I want to gain control. It’s interesting isn’t it? Same intention, totally different execution.

 

Some people don’t care for control, possibly. I wonder why. I wonder if there’s something that is the opposite that they value more. Such as, let things pan out on its own in a surprising way because it’s more …??? Interesting? Surprising? Optimized? Because there’s no use in worrying about it because we don’t actually have control over those things?

If  have the time and money, I’d totally be into VR right now. I should start. I have the time and money to start exploring. To know what is being done already.

I want to get things done. I want to stop being a perfectionist so much.

BUT. I also want this:

I want to do something in order to gain true value out of it.

In school, I’d be able to ace exams by memorizing a pattern to answer the questions. In applying for grants, I’d write a fake biz plan so I can submit it. Both of these actions don’t generate real value.

Acing exams are good, but a deep understanding of the subject is far more important.

Submitting a biz plan is better than not trying, but writing a fake biz plan is a waste of my time.

I need to be more real.

I need to value my time.

What am I doing now that is just “doing it to ace an exam”?

I guess I’m planning to generate crap in social media.

Don’t do that.

Generate something good. Something useful, entertaining, or is good for my goal of getting better at videos.

My competitors have these youtube videos. They are kinda clear marketing strategy. “Let’s write on this blank wall together”. So fake. I don’t want to do that.

Their videos are so polished too. Too polished. Now is a great time to have home made videos since we are all sitting at home

What are videos I can do?

1. Answer questions that ppl are asking about silicone rings – why wear it, how to size it
2. Talk about new collections – wear outfits to match, or intro mood board, or talk about origin (inspiration), and process (if it took many tries)
3. Talk about pairing many different rings
4. Talk about my story
5. Check what other successful product owners are doing. e.g. Huda. She is so big but is a one woman show!
6. A tour of my process and facility?
7. Up and coming services such as engraving
8. eco packaging (that’s not a whole video though)

I went for a run around the seawall again, at 7:30am or so.

I found a rosemary plant on the side of the road and wanted to bring it home. Haha.

Had a really fun day with Ty yesterday. John is so much less stimulating, and didn’t “hear” me. I got kinda upset at him last night.

Had a cold shower. Felt great.

I wanted to start working instead of meditating and thinkitating. But I did them anyway. Tomorrow, I’ll do them at 10pm instead.

My thinkitation revealed that: I gotta give and forgive in order to elevate my friend community.

I woke up too early around 5am. Loved the feeling of my bedsheet. Good mood. Slept some more so I have energy to hang out with Ty today. Masturbated.

Woke up again at 9:45!

But I went for a nice sprint, cold shower, excellent forgiveness medication, and thinkitated on how to be happy.

It was very brief because Ty is on his way…

Here are my thoughts:

I’m already on the right path.

Hang out with friends that make me happy.

Do fulfilling things.

 

Today I went for a run, cold shower, listened to Tom Biyeu, breathed (for around 5 minutes), and now it’s time to thinkiate.

The question I want to answer is, What do I do so that Bunny can be in a better state (of mind and wealth) and thus allowing me to be in a better state?

I thought about distancing myself from him. He is so depressing, so negative. He doesn’t always complain, but his thoughts are terrible.

When the stocks are up, he was happy, and so was I. We were good then.

But we can’t just rely our mood on stocks.

I feel that he is too impatient his whole life, desperately trying to make money fast. Even he feels stupid that he is always chasing money.

An analogy would be of him running so fast to get the money, wasn’t very careful, tripped and fell on his face, now he is behind, so he is even more anxious, and he is frantically running in pain.

If I were him, I would stop working at BMW, go to that Samurai Brotherhood group, meet people, find opportunities, explore as many jobs I want to do as possible, such as the ones in trading, and work towards getting those jobs.

Part of me feels that I shouldn’t be so controlling and influencing him.

Part of me feels that I should be more active in helping him because his happiness is good for my happiness.

I suppose the best middle is to guide him but let him choose.  Leave him if I must. Be like a teacher.

I will focus on understanding in order to guide him.

His biggest goal is to have enough money that he doesn’t have to worry about it.

In order to do that, he probably needs passive income.

Another way to achieve that is through owning his own business.

The way he believes he’ll make millions is through investing.

I think he wants to save up money, then invest in something.

Passive income, new business – these all require time to build up. I guess they can be stressful too.

Selling BMW – that’s mega stressful from the sounds of it.

His choices aren’t the worst. There’s reasoning behind them.

It’s just that he is so mega stressed out, it worries me.

He is always stressed out ever since I met him.

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I didn’t come up with much during thinkitation, but the next day he was feeling so much better. I think all he needs is someone to say, you’re doing great! And, I’m here for you if you need me.

 

First launch would be the magic purple ring.

1. Create images and a good name for it – update listings
2. Create a cool coming soon pop up on the website
3. Create a cool website slider for this new arrival
4. Create a new arrival section on the website menu
5. Create a cool IG feed – 3×3 grid
6. Research all the great hashtags
7. Join hashtag groups
8. Create videos – simple ring rotation for coming soon story in FB/IG; simple one of me squeezing it; also add to Amazon listing and Etsy videos
9. Reach out to influencers on tiktok and IG with these videos, get them to make more videos or just rave about it. They get free ring, they get commish.
10. Document launch sequence so we can replicate this
11. Write a blog and include all this media and keywords
12. Send out email using basically this blog
13. Create FB Test Track group to announce the ring along the way

Had my first thinkitation after some box breathing! Felt very good! I did strike gold! Tom Bilyeu is great.

Question I asked: How do I make the most of my time right now?

Answer: Marketing

I thought it’d be more spiritual, but I think marketing will lead me into cool places.

I also basked myself in GuanYin’s warmth. I feel loved.

I also visualized making $2MM from my investment in the near future, and giving Bunny $300K. I promised to put $100K aside for charity. I’ll be mindful of charities to donate to.

I had a cool idea for the 3D engraving tool: using the magnetic screw driver as the attachment – for a magnetic puzzle attachment to the engraver that James suggested. Screwing in is old school and secure, but magnetic puzzle is quicker and more fun.

I also promised to keep a routine, like Tom Bilyeu does. That’s a good way to stay focused and productive.

I really enjoyed the breath work and the thinkitation. And I enjoy exercising/running in the morning the past two days. Definitely onto something.

For marketing, I’ll strategize, make a plan.

There are many areas I want to advance steadily in:

1. Launch in an enticing, exciting way – FB group, PR, influencers, email to customers
2. Be a very lively brand  – always updating with new stuff, always fun – e.g. sign up for our newsletter and get notified on our next new release (a countdown to show the next drop)
3. Use engraving as a way to keep releasing new rings – monthly, limited edition
4. Make many videos, get good at making them – by making them regularly.
5. Hire helpers for this consistent update, including: engraving, advertising, social media update, influencer outreach, video artists. Make sure my time is spent strategizing, making sure we are moving forward at the right pace and in the right direction.
6. Connect to influencers in a long-lasting mutually beneficial way
7. Evaluate and improve FB advertising
8. Communicate with our customers in a meaningful and constructive way – more heart, more feedback
9. By the end of this year, we would have an impressive portfolio, and will reach out to big names, such as Tom Bilyeu, NASA, Canadian Air Force, Tesla, Aura rings for collaborations.
10. Have many mini collections: animal signs (go further, have various breeds of dogs and exotic animals), horoscopes, constellations, birthstones, wisdom from countries (wise foreign words), I love [city/country], LGBT, current news (e.g. One Love, Black Lives matter), self signalling (omg so many words; reference single word tattoos; e.g. matrix), cityscapes / mountain-scapes,  meaningful or funny logos (1*, moustache, unique snowflakes), various cool planes (e.g. blackbird), time or geo coordinates, hashtags (funny or wise; e.g. #1, #matrix), lyrics / quotes / idioms, identity words (badass, rebel, growth), holidays and special occasions (best mom, best dad), see Etsy for more customization inspo
11. Encourage 2 engravings because they don’t last forever. 1 for $10 to $12, 2 for $18 to $20.
12. Set up monthly major milestones. These are musts.

Ok, I will always take 1 action to get this started!

The action is: Create a launch plan!

 

In the next 12 months or less, Knot Theory will be doing >$1M USA in revenue. I can feel it.

We are growing on Amazon, Etsy, Shopify. We’ll be expanding to Walmart.com and Sprocket.

We are adding 80% more SKUs.

Will be doing ads with Cyndi.

Will be doing more ads on Etsy.

Will be doing videos on Amazon, our website, and Tiktok.

Will be revamping our IG feed.

Will be doing engraving.

Will be creating a group called Knot Theory Test Track.

I’m all settled down in Vancouver, not travelling this year. This is the year of expansion!!

The past 30 days revenue:

Amazon US: $45K USD

Amazon CA: $10K CAD ($7.5K USD)

Amazon EU: $1.2K USD

Etsy: $7K USD

Knotheory.com: $4K USD

Total: $65K USD = $88.76K CAD

If we keep this up, this is $1M CAD / year already!

I have a feeling we’ll do even better than this. If we do 30% better, we’ll be doing $1M USD  / year.

I really want to join the million dollar sellers club as soon as possible. Hopefully less than 1 year from now.

So I need to look for ways to double, triple our sales.

I think in the next 3 months we can grow to:

Amazon USA: $60K/month

Amazon CA: $10K/month

Amazon EU: $2K/month

Etsy: $10K/month

Knotheory.com: $6K/month

Walmart USA & CA + Sproket: $2K/month

Total: $90K/month

That’s a 38% growth target.

I’m anticipating 25% growth from SKU growth, and 25% from engraving and boosted videos, ads effort and ad spend.