Date with Keilor – best night in Costa Rica

I’ve discovered the joy of solo travel, and the joy of traveling, again.

The world is my oyster, really. I have money, time, and I still look youthful.

First stop: get even more youthful haha

Eye lift and lip lift. Maybe neck too? Maybe eyelash transplant. And find the best way to boost skin youthfulness.

Where is the best place for it?

I want to get toned this summer, do facercises and lymphatic massages (focus on jaw reduction), and play Spikeball.

In autumn/winter, I’ll do these surgeries.

Then, travel the world!

I want to go to Turkey, Egypt, Madagascar, Japan (bunny island), do more surfing and eventually do artificial wave machines

Maybe I want to live in a place for a month instead of short bursts. Arrange for someone to live at my place …

I’m just thinking about my first day with Keilor.

First impression, a new guy? Damn why is it not one of the other two instructors?

He was enthusiastic though.

We went to the beach and he asked “Are you busy today? Cuz I’m free today.”

We started making waves out of sand so he can explain wave theory to me.

Told me he is really good. He’s been surfing since he was 5, and now he is 26. Asked how old I was. I said that’s not a question you ask girls! And laughed and said I was ageless.

He asked me to show him my skill by riding 3 whitewater waves. After 2, he said we are ready to head out to the deep.

He taught me how to turtle roll. I did it, and we paddled out.

I rode two big waves successfully! One to the left and one to the right. I was thrilled!

When waiting for the waves, we talked.

I don’t remember exactly what he said/asked, but I was laughing lots with him. He said I laughed a lot. And later said I have a beautiful smile.

At some point I said I wanted to get more toned. He said I had a beautiful body. He’d always compliment in Spanish and then translate it.

Though at the same time he got self conscious that he doesn’t have a 6 pack. He looked inside his top and he said he only has a 4 pack.

I told him about staying in a treehouse in Monteverde. We joked about me waking up with a sloth in one arm and Tarzan in another.

Later on when we got back, he showed me a video of him with longer hair and so he can be like Tarzan too lol

He asked if I would go to Selina’s the next day. I said maybe.

After we got back, we talked and laughed some more, and he cut a mango for me. We saw a squirrel eating a mango and thought it was so cute.

He also asked for my IG. All these gestures, and I didn’t quite know that he liked me!

When I left, it’s already been 3 hours! (Later he told me he actually got into trouble a bit for spending so much time with me.)

I walked away with so much joy in my heart. Finally a good instructor who cares!

I think later that day I felt something towards him, and wanted to go to Selina’s.

After dinging at Huacas, Janelle and I went to Selina’s. It was raining hard and Keilor wasn’t there.

I was a bit disappointed but I didn’t say for sure I would go anyway. Later on I learned that the rain made him decide to not go. I don’t blame him. The roads were terrible there. They turned to mud when it rained.


Janelle thought everyone was hot, including Keilor. At first I said she can have him, but I started to feel something for him later that night.

The next day, Janelle came with me to the surf school. She was flirty with Keilor, and Keilor was kinda flirty too. A part of me hated that most likely if she had lessons with him, they would’ve hooked up too. Alas, fate put Keilor and I together.

He learned from her that we went to Selina’s. He was surprised and seemed bummed that he didn’t go.

During our class, he explained again that it was raining hard so he didn’t go. He asked me to show him the dance moves I learned. He asked if I danced with a lot of guys. I said “No I’m picky. I’m attracted to very few people”.

I think he kinda pieced it together that I was there for him.

I was getting beat up by the waves. It was high tide at 10am.

He asked if I wanted to sit on the beach for a bit.

At this point I was happy just to spend time with him. We sat on the beach and just talked. I was a bit nervous around him on this second day. I even lost a game of tic tac toe. So embarrassing.

But he thought I was smart… I guess because I’m successful.

He asked my age again and I refused to tell him.

We weren’t really flirting… he said he wanted to make me a (fish) tail out of sand, started, and stopped.

Maybe it’s harder to flirt with someone you have feelings for!

My feelings for him brewed and flourished overnight it seemed.

I acted differently. More cute.

He was a bit more serious.

He asked if I wanted to try turtle eggs, or see the sea turtles. I immediately said Yes! I wouldn’t pass an opportunity to experience Costa Rica from a local’s eye.

And of course, a part of me was thinking, is he wanting to spend time with me outside of the class? Does this mean he likes me?

After we got back, he asked again, and I said yes again.

I was so excited! I thought we were gonna go right after class!

But then he went to the bathroom, and right before that, he said bye. I was so disappointed and confused…

Later, I dm’d him to find out what’s up. He said yes he’d like to take me to see the turtles after my dinner.

I was happy again. Though I wonder if I didn’t dm him, what would’ve happened?

I had a long dinner that Collin cooked (6 courses, 2.5 hours!). It was very so so, and I had no appetite! I just wanted to go on my date!

As 9pm approached, I felt more and more horny, and increasingly certain that this was not gonna be a platonic hangout. There was still a little bit of doubt though. I learned that sea turtle watching was at night by default….so it could’ve been just a wholesome invite.

I wore my long colourful floral dress. I looked good! Also, it was the first time he saw me in a wig!

He came on his motorcycle, which looked cool. And he was wearing a black wife-beater and glasses. He looked cute. His biceps were so defined and hot. He thought I looked really good too, and twirled me.

I wanted to show him my room, but he said he was too shy. I thought, oh, I guess no sex tonight!

I hopped on the back of his motorcycle, and put my arms around his waist. We both giggled. This was for sure a date! (Also, he is ticklish)

The next part was probably my favourite. As we rode towards Ostional, his town, it just felt great being with him and holding him!

We’d chat and laugh. I’d talk into his ear.

I reveled in that moment. I loved every second of it.

We rode past a bush and all the frogs in it started “laughing”. I was startled and he was surprised that frogs didn’t sound like this in North America lol. I told him they say “ribbit” instead.

Another surprise was the stray dogs barking at us and chasing after us as we rode by! It felt like a video game!

I felt so safe with him though. He is so athletic, he knows how to ride well.

We arrived at his parent’s house, where his dog Cooper (a beagle) and another dog greeted us.

He parked his bike there. There were about 10 surf boards there. He showed me one, and it has his name on it. It was sent to him by his sponsor. That means he is pro. So cool.

We walked to the beach. He was prepared with a red flash light and some bug spray.

When we got there, he extended his elbow out for me. I thought that was weird so I held his hand instead.

So we walked on the beach, holding hands. So cute.

There were guards patrolling the beach, protecting the turtles.

He pointed out the egg shells on the beach. The turtles have hatched out of them!

They were soft shells. That was the first time I saw/touched turtle eggshells.

I think we were on the beach for 5 minutes before he took both of my hands and wanted to kiss me.

It was dark and hard to read his face, so I was a little surprised.

And omg, he was such an amazing kisser! His lips felt full, and he’d use his tongue, and he’d suck my entire mouth which really turned me on.

I was so blown away and so turned on during our makeout session. I was ready to have sex right there. I forgot that the guards are there lol.

My knees were weak. Ugh this was the best feeling!

I was wearing that long dress. He had to lift up a lot of skirt to feel me up lol.

When he did, he realized I was super wet.

He was like, Ok let’s go. Haha

We hadn’t even seen turtles yet, but the sex can’t wait ????

[11:34 pm, 21/05/2024] Tanya Huang: We went back to his parents. He said no one lives on the second floor so we can go there. It had a private entrance even!

It was hot in there. He turned on the AC but I was wet and sweaty already.

His dick was passable. He is probably just a little bit taller than me ..5’7 perhaps. He is smaller than Alex. And the tip is small. And there was a slight curve side ways. But workable!

I loved the way he admired my tits and ass.

I loved that he ate me out too.

When he sucked on my ears, it was as though an on switch was pressed.

We had fun!

He brought 2 condoms. He asked if I brought any. Well no, I’m a tourist who didn’t expect to have sex on a biz trip lol

He had such intensity when he looked at me during sex. Kinda hot, kinda cringe. But then, Alex was similar that way.

He liked to choke.

We also laughed a lot. He was a lil surprised that we/I laughed so much during a sex sesh.

We talked and made out and had more sex.

It was super fun.


After sex, he asked me again how old I was. He guessed 35, I said no. He diplomatically asked, “Younger or older?” I said older, so he guessed 40. I said no, so he guessed 45.

After learning that I was 44, he was fine with it. He just wanted to know, but he said age didn’t matter. And since then, it really didn’t seem to matter to him.


He took me home. The ride back was just as fun. We are more “close” now. I hugged him and sometimes rubbed his chest to keep him warm.

I asked how he felt (because he had felt a bit cold when a tiny bit of rain started). He said he felt GREAT.

The dogs didn’t chase after us this time! They were completely disinterested.

The frogs were still laughing though.

We talked all the way back. He was really good at making conversations and making me laugh.

We got back to my hotel. I jumped off his bike. We just looked at each other intensely. He was more intense than me. It felt like he tried to remember this moment forever. I like that.

He asked if I felt safe with him. I said YES. I 100% did. He was such a good rider and so sweet. It was an incredible night!


I just remembered a couple more things.

On our second surf day, he found a perfectly heart-shaped rock! He gave it to me. I didn’t have pockets, so I said something about good luck, and tossed it back into the ocean lol. I later on remembered that he has zippered pockets, and I wish I had given it to him to safekeep.

Another thing was that he asked me what my favourite colour was. This was a good question because I didn’t expect to tell him so much about me.

I said red, because it’s the colour of love, passion, boldness.

He didn’t know for sure what his favourite colour was. He said probably blue because that’s the colour of the waves. I pointed out how the waves actually looked green lol.

He hasn’t been liking my stories and posts. I’m feeling a little sad. But I know it has to end eventually.

Tomorrow (Jun 3) I’m going to post about his surf school. I hope it goes well. I might post about our date the day after, but I won’t tag him.

Photos and videos:

http://knotheory.website/jour/videos/Keilor/

Costa Rica; Keilor; New Beginning

Oh Costa Rica, what a trip!

I feel so blessed to have experienced this trip, and I feel so blessed to be back, and I feel so blessed to be at this stage in my life at 44yo.

I’m young enough to enjoy everything like a 30yo. Old enough to have the experience and the financial / locational / time freedom.

Keilor has breathed new life into me. A 26yo being interested in me, and is actually sincere and sweet.

I feel reborn! I feel that I’ve lived a micro-life in Costa Rica where I eat-pray-love’d the shit out of it hahaha

Remembering my favourite moments in life, and finding the pattern – an exercise I did 2 years ago. I know that what makes me happy are: laughing so hard my belly hurts (usually a group setting), a romanic connection, cute animals, motion of freedom. (There’s a few more, but these are definitely the top of the top ones). And this Costa Rica trip ticked them all!

Ahh.. how lucky I am!

Many of it is by design. I sought out the cute animals, the surfing, and group trip. But meeting Keilor – that’s luck and it’s the cherry on top.

So I’m forever grateful for this blessing.

I have such fond memories with him.

When I was in my early 30s, I had a few sexy encounters. Matthew, Josh, Patrick, Idriss.

There was also that entrepreneur who looked 18…Brad. Sam from WifiTribe who was fun but micro. Mike Evans who was just a mutual crush.

Then from 38 to 42 – dating Nicolas (maybe this was at 32), Jeffrey, Alex, then John – it was dark times lol

Then 42 to 44 – the sexy encounters were Alex Pinto, Brandon, and Keilor.

I guess even though it felt like a dry spell the past 2 years, I still encounter someone once a year on average haha

A couple frustrations such as Sid (Actually not that cool or hot of a guy), Shuto (I mean, he is 2oyo…amazing that he even wanted to connect lol). Got hit on by several guy still, such as Suraj, Mylo, Allen, Arshan.

During this trip, people thought I was 30 or 31. That’s pretty good!


My most favourite experiences with guys have always been flings, not relationships. I didn’t even feel much butterflies at the early stages of these relationships.

I thrive on sexual relationships.

What makes Keilor special though, is that he turns me on and he also makes me laugh, and we laugh a lot together.

Of all my sexy encounters, I think the only other person that made me laugh and cum were Matthew and Alex! Crazy when you think about it.

I mean, most guys are too stoic. They might make me laugh a little but they don’t laugh with me “hard”.

Most of these guys don’t laugh out loud! Sam and I had lot of laughs, but gosh, what a disaster in the bedroom!

Mike made me laugh, but he wasn’t a big laugher. Also we never slept together.

Also, I have spent one on one time with Sam and Mike, and it was surprisingly boring! No laughs.

Alex tells amazing stories and made me laugh, but he didn’t laugh much and he didn’t laugh at my jokes much. Sex was 10/10 though.

Keilor was the only one where we laughed so much together. Sex was 7/10, but good vibes is 10/10.

Sex ranking:

  1. Alex Pinto – 10/10 – great dick, god-like skills, sexy vibes
  2. Matthew – 9/10 – light hearted vibes, good looking guy, good fit, fun
  3. Patrick – 9/10 – great looking guy, sexy, big dick
  4. Josh – 7/10 – gorgeous, very touchy which was nice; no skills
  5. Keilor – 7/10 – dick isn’t the best match, likes stuff I don’t like such as anal, pumps are too brief; good vibes lots of laughs
  6. Nicolas – 7/10 – dick feels great (10/10). dick, face, body not as attractive to look at. Bad memories of this guy though.
  7. Brandon, Brad, Idriss – 5/10 – not sure why, but not very fun
  8. Devin – 3/10 – smaller, looked nice as a half indian half swedish ripped mix
  9. Brett – 3/10 – first guy after Norm. Don’t remember much.
  10. John – 2/10 – One time it was 8/10, but rest of the times, very brief and lame; no effort
  11. Jeffrey, Alex R, Norm, and a really young guy who got me drunk (I think 17yr age gap and he wasn’t very cute) – ?/10 – So unmemorable. I don’t remember having sex with them lol

After thinking about this, I’m realizing, my god, meeting Keilor is such a manifested, god-orchestrated experience!

What are the chances of this happening? It has to be a miracle!

First, what I love the most about this is that he became interested in me while I wasn’t wearing a wig, my hair was wet, and I was constantly rubbing sunscreen out of my eyes. Not to mention I wasn’t my most graceful self getting pummeled by the waves, climbing onto the surfboard like a drowning dog, and learning to surf as a total novice lol.

I just can’t fathom what about me had attracted him. But I’m glad he was attracted!

I sometimes feel that he must’ve been pleasantly surprised by the more glamorous version of me – blonde wig, cute dress, bikini.

Since this experience with him, I feel so much more confident about not wearing a wig. Reminds me of how Patrick had made me feel.

Second miracle is that he is playful! And he laughs out loud! It’s what I’ve been looking for! I didn’t realize how rare it was until I tallied up all my sex partners, and realized that almost none of them was playful. He was the first that made me laugh AND we laughed together!

This experience is such a gift. Thank you <3

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I learned that: during an arribada, up to 300,000 sea turtles nest at Ostional beach, laying millions of eggs!

It wasn’t arribada when we went, but we saw these hatched turtle egg shells!

We rode past some frogs and they made laughing noises! Instead of “ribbit, ribbit”, they went “jajajaja” (“hahaha” in Spanish)!

It was the funnest night. Hardly any photos, but I remember it all.

Also, the day before, I rode 2 BIG WAVES and felt AMAZING thanks to you @keilor!

I’m really glad we met. So much love for you.

 


“Why are your eyebrows black?” was his ice-breaker question for me.

I was gonna explain microblading to him but realized he was 5 and probably just hadn’t seen an Asian before.

We played “hide-and-catch”…a more proactive form of hide-and-seek haha. Me and Wakim (5yo) were on the hiding team, and his sister Indira (11yo) was to catch us.

We roamed the hotel villa, even cut through the kitchen several times (which turned out to be ok because their dad Collin was the chef!)

At one point Wakim unknowingly took me to the security camera room to hide. It was 100% the best spot for the game! We giggled so hard. Indira eventually found us though. Smart girl.

In the evening, Collin asked if I wanted to join them for dinner. I had already heard about his culinary skills, and made a reservation for his 5-star dinner later that week, so, hells yeah!

A couple days later Wakim and I played together again. I didn’t have my wig on this time. He said, “You look astonishingly different!” Definitely the biggest word I’ve ever heard from a 5yo haha. And then we made some purple playdough empanadas together.