It’s been exactly a week since Jeffrey broke it off with me. He wants kids and I don’t. I was sad for Friday, Saturday, and some on Sunday. On Monday, I went on a date with Will, a really smart 6’4 British CTO / business owner from Toronto. He was ok looking, but he was so smart, and quite funny, that I was fascinated by him.
He makes a platform like Shopify, but designed for companies selling more than 10,000 products. He was able to amp up one company’s sale from 2% to 10%. That day, he had just signed a deal with telus, and will now make $300K every year!
He was sipping 3 glasses of scotch, from 20 yo to 30 yo. I had a glass of red wine (around $18). Together our tab came to over $400!
We then went to Miku. He told me about CRSPR gene and other interesting things. He was pretty funny. My conversations with him were so much deeper than what I had with Jeffrey! I was having fun.
We ended up at his AirBnb. I walked in and saw 2 empty used wine glasses. Hmm….not the best sign.
We cuddled for a bit, then made out. He wanted to see me without a wig. He wasn’t as sweet as Jeffrey. He just said, Cool.
He was not as nice smelling as Jeffrey either. And too tall. But, he was a great distraction.
At one point, I used the bathroom, and saw a condom in the garbage. Then, I saw period “flakes” on the toilet seat. Wow. What a turnoff.
I walked back and said, You had sex yesterday. He said, Yes.
I said, “Well, that’s not awkward. Actually, it’s very awkward.” But I brushed it off after a little bit.
We made out some more, talked some more. He was groping my ass and nibbling my ear which really turned me on. But I held him off when he tried to take my panties off.
The next day, he messaged me in the morning. He said he woke up smiling about our conversation and how sensitive my ears were.
He asked for a pic of me in high heels. I said no. He asked if I’d go to SF with him. I said no. I said he just had sex hours before meeting me. He didn’t think it was a big deal, since I had sex just 3 days before. Well, the real reason was that he wasn’t that attractive overall. He wasn’t the most sweet, he wasn’t very handsome, and he wouldn’t make a very good boyfriend (he’s never been in love with his past girlfriends).
But, I stopped crying about Jeffrey after meeting Will on Monday. I didn’t hear from Jeffrey that day either.
On Tuesday, Jeffrey asked if it’s ok that we meet. I said sure, when the parcels arrive (which was likely Thursday). On Wednesday, I sent him a puffer fish video. The male puffer courts the female puffer by spending 7 days, 24 hours a day, making a perfectly circular “nest”, for the female to lay eggs in.
Jeffrey said it made him cry. He felt like the puffer fish.
He said he misses me so much, every day. He wanted to snuggle with me.
I don’t feel as sad about it anymore. I didn’t miss him that much. I just gave up on him completely.
On Wednesday I played volleyball in the mud. On Thursday I went to Yuk Yuks’ with Lisa and her friends. I told her about Jeffrey, and didn’t even shed a tear.
But after getting home, Jeffrey and I chatted. And today, we decided to meet up to “cuddle”.
He came at 4:20. He always walks in the door on his own, which is kinda interesting. He was wearing a blue shirt, which looked really good. We hugged.
I opened the parcel I had just picked up. It was the leather messenger bag.
He said I looked especially cute today. He said he can look at me all day.
It was a little bit awkward. I didn’t touch him.
He asked if we are gonna cuddle. I said, Sure, but let’s have tea first.
I made some berry tea but it was too hot. I didn’t want to wait for it to cool, so I said, Wanna cuddle first?
I went under the blanket. He hesitated. I think he didn’t want to wrinkle his shirt and pants. He took them off. Down to just his red and grey undies. He has even more abs now. He looked pretty good!
I was wearing a red dress. We matched.
I talked mostly. He hugged me. Then he started kissing my ears. I said something like, you know those are sensitive spots. He apologized and stopped.
He told me how perfect I was. How great I smelled. How much he loved cuddling me.
At some point he just made me cry. Saying that I was everything he wanted. He tried to stop my crying.
Then at some point when we were both facing each other, nose to nose, he kissed me. I didn’t think he would.
He started grabbing my ass and talked about how perfect my ass was. I wasn’t wearing panties.
He went down on me. I was so wet. I think he licked off all my wetness. He said I tasted really good. I was perfect in every way.
He kissed me, looked at me, lied on top of me. Looked at me again. When he pulled my dress down a bit to kiss my nipple, and started kissing my ears again, I knew he wanted sex. He didn’t want to initiate it, but he wanted me to.
So I touched his dick, pulled his undies down. He said, I don’t know what we are doing Tanya. Or maybe he said he didn’t know what he was doing. In any case, we started having sex.
It was great. He was leaner than before so he looked hot. Sex felt really good. I like doggie style with him.
We cuddled a bit more, then he had to go to meet with friends to see a movie.
He said he had nothing planned tomorrow, if I wanted to see him I’d let him know.
Part of me am happy to see him, but part of me feels like, man, even the most sincere guy is now treating me like a fuck buddy.
I don’t feel very attached right now though. I think, we can go to point roberts together and see.
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I can’t remember at what point he told me about his childhood. His dad used to drink and would beat up his mom, him, and his siblings. He was mad at his mom too, for not taking them away from his dad and leaving him.
His dad used to throw him across the room, because he was small. He’s hit the wall or get thrown into the bathroom. His siblings and mom would even laugh at him calling it a “flying lesson”. He hid in the freezer for 5 minutes once, to escape from his dad who was looking for him.
This definitely explains why he is so passionate about the Kids Help Line.
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I really don’t know what to do next with him. I like seeing him and fucking him. I like hearing all the nice things he says to me. But, this can’t go on forever.
