Today I went for a run, cold shower, listened to Tom Biyeu, breathed (for around 5 minutes), and now it’s time to thinkiate.
The question I want to answer is, What do I do so that Bunny can be in a better state (of mind and wealth) and thus allowing me to be in a better state?
I thought about distancing myself from him. He is so depressing, so negative. He doesn’t always complain, but his thoughts are terrible.
When the stocks are up, he was happy, and so was I. We were good then.
But we can’t just rely our mood on stocks.
I feel that he is too impatient his whole life, desperately trying to make money fast. Even he feels stupid that he is always chasing money.
An analogy would be of him running so fast to get the money, wasn’t very careful, tripped and fell on his face, now he is behind, so he is even more anxious, and he is frantically running in pain.
If I were him, I would stop working at BMW, go to that Samurai Brotherhood group, meet people, find opportunities, explore as many jobs I want to do as possible, such as the ones in trading, and work towards getting those jobs.
Part of me feels that I shouldn’t be so controlling and influencing him.
Part of me feels that I should be more active in helping him because his happiness is good for my happiness.
I suppose the best middle is to guide him but let him choose. Leave him if I must. Be like a teacher.
I will focus on understanding in order to guide him.
His biggest goal is to have enough money that he doesn’t have to worry about it.
In order to do that, he probably needs passive income.
Another way to achieve that is through owning his own business.
The way he believes he’ll make millions is through investing.
I think he wants to save up money, then invest in something.
Passive income, new business – these all require time to build up. I guess they can be stressful too.
Selling BMW – that’s mega stressful from the sounds of it.
His choices aren’t the worst. There’s reasoning behind them.
It’s just that he is so mega stressed out, it worries me.
He is always stressed out ever since I met him.
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I didn’t come up with much during thinkitation, but the next day he was feeling so much better. I think all he needs is someone to say, you’re doing great! And, I’m here for you if you need me.