Life Maxing

I don’t listen to MFM podcast consistently.

I get lots of ideas from it and it distracts me from what I need to get done.

But sometimes I need that inspiration and stimulation.

Today, the episode was so good.

It got me thinking:

  1. I want to start “life maxing”! And for me that means – get in shape, look young, and learn 1 braggable skillGet in shape – I’m on it! Working out an hour in the morning each day, before breakfast. Eating mostly paleo. Walking 10K about 5 days a week.

    It’s been about 10 days. I think if I keep this up, I should have a toned body – 11 line abs, muscles in my arms and legs, lifted booty, less cellulite, lean inner thigh – in 1 month. At least, I shall see progress in 1 month! Right now, I have the faintest hint of abs, still have a small belly from Victoria trip in Xmas/New Year, slightly flabby arms and legs, slightly lifted booty, and some cellulite. Also I just started putting the far infrared light behind me when I do my morning and evening skin routine. I also use that cellulite buster massage tool sometimes.

    Look young – I’m doing my daily skincare routine morning and night. Retinol, Vitamin C, la mer, castor oil and frankincense oil, plus a bunch of other lotions and potions. I use red light therapy (though, can be more consistent) and sometimes Aquaphor to seal moisture in. I use Medicube’s booster pro to zap my face. I just started doing monthly microneedling. I also do face massage, face yoga.

    I also want to go to Korea to get under-brow lift, philtrum shortenging, and some sort of overall lift. Maybe sculptra? I should start planning in May or June, and go in January after spending time in Taiwan with Mom and Dad.

I also wan to try hyperbaric chambers.

1 braggable skill – I think it’ll be iFly! It’ll require that I live somewhere with an iFly, for 2 to 4 weeks. Probably 2 sessions a day. I can try to mix it with another travel, such as Sedona, AZ this year. I think it’s better to do it across many days each time. I should set a goal of how many hours I want to spend on iFly this year.

 

 

Michael Rathman, Lenny the Miku server, Bunny Cafe with Tina

Had an epic dinner with the Hampton Vancouver Geo on Thursday! The sake and sushi night was so fun! I felt so rich.

We had 7 or so glasses of sake, and tons of sushi in their fanciest forms. Gold foil, caviar, and stuff flown in from Japan the same day.

Our server, Lenny, was not just a waiter, but also the person who planned out our meal!

He introduced each sake and each course.

When he spoke, I suddenly realized, he is CUTE! And his demeanour was very attractive….a blend of classy and stoic.

He has a slight British accent too. Very sexy.

Turned out he was from HK.

His hair was slicked back, which was unsual. At one point, I noticed that he was blading at the back, and was covering his bald spot with slicked back hair.

Luckily he has a strong face card! He was still cute.

He gave me his business card at the end of the night. I was caught off guard and turned on. But as I was walking home, I called Michael, my co-social-chair, asking, “Did you also get his business card?” and he did. Damn.

It doesn’t mean he wasn’t trying to slip me his number though. I still have/had hope. I emailed him this photo last night. Though so far I haven’t heard back.

I have been fantasizing about him. Yes he is a server / event host who has worked at Miku for 10 years. We are so different. But imagine how attentive he’d be! In bed!

If he replies, great. If he doesn’t, that’s fine too. He is balding lol.

I just want to play with him a couple of times.

I want to have flings, or, possibly, friends with benefits.


Michael Rathman is my true love though.

I’ve never felt so attracted to someone in such a way. But at the same time, I remind myself that, I barely know him. I don’t know his flaws. I’ve never even seen his full body!

No idea about his height.

Lenny is pretty short and lean. But his finger are nice and thick haha.


Went to Bunny Cafe with Tina! It was cute.

Then we went to Havana for coffee, then just had dinner there.

The server was someone that acted and looked so much like Alex Pinto! It was funny. He wasn’t as cute, but he was young and friendly. I felt that he was a bit interested in me. But, nah, kinda ugly. I was just drawn because it was as though he was cut from the same cloth as Alex haha


A little bit sad that Austin has got a gf and we won’t be going to raccoon island.

Also a little bit sad that Brian just skipped out on our monthly dinner without a word. So weird. I’m soooo glad we never got intimate!


This year’s sales have not be great. Website was broken probably due to Shopify updates. That’s now temporarily fixed.

I’m hanging in there with quite a bit of stress (not looking forward to doing taxes either).

But, as of 7 days ago, I started exercising daily, and waking up before 9am. Also have been fasting 15+ hours for 5 days now, including a 24h fast!

I want to manifest a great year with some great sexy sincere playful flings!

 

 

I Can Manifest

Remember, I can manifest.

So, let’s manifest something AMAZING!

Knot Theory is running smoothly without much of my intervention. It’s like a grown young adult. I just give now and then guidance.

Knot Theory pulls in $1M+ profit each year.

Meanwhile, my investments also continue to grow.

I have an abundance of cash flow, both business and personal.

I have discovered a way to age in reverse, and I’m able to teach that to Mom and Dad and friends. We are all healthier and younger by the day!

I feel an abundance of energy, vitality, and excitement towards life.

I look and feel like a 20 something year old. I have supple skin, young face, abs, lifted butt.

I have lots of fun and sincere flings with hot 20 something year olds. They thing I’m amazing, I think they are amazing, and we make each other feel seen, respected, and prioritized.

I get to live where I want to live, and do what I want to do each day, with lots of fun friends to do it with if I so choose.

Summer in Vancouver is amazing. I play spikeball and laugh lots. I’ve gotten really good at spikeball!

In the colder months, I spend lots of time in warm places, such as Florida, Arizona, Bali, Mexico. I have a blast!

I have so many fun flings when I travel!

I’m going to Disney World and Universal Studios with one of my flings. We have so much to talk about, he is funny, generous, respectful, sincere, and has lots of time and money. We are super attracted to each other.

 

 

 

 

xTool F1 or F1 Ultra?

F1 Ultra:

  1. Has a camera, so, easier to line-up the ring
  2. Engraves 2.5 times faster
  3. $5,375+$117.6(tilter)+$400(rotary)+$1348(air filter; -30% discount when bought with F1 Ultra, +tax) = 5375+118+400+about 1100 = $7000
  4. We can buy a duct fan instead of air filter, which is under $400 (So the total would be $6300)

F1:

  1. Doesn’t have a camera, but, can use templates and laser guide.
  2. Engraves slower, but can buy 2 machines
  3. $3135(includes rotary and air filter)+$117.6(tilter) = 3253

About 40% of the customers say they want a metal version of their rings. But, who knows what price point they have in mind!

I think we should get:

  1. 100 blank gold, silver, and dark silver (stainless steel?) rings, CF6 and D6
  2. With our logo marked inside
  3. Square Boxes for 1 metal ring
  4. Rectangular, maybe sliding/drawer-style boxes for 1 metal and 1 silicone ring
  5. We’ll offer custom engraving
  6. Then we’ll offer popular designs (e.g. mountain on silver CF6)

Valentines

Yesterday was Valentine’s (It’s 1am now).

I actually forgot about it, having so many other things on my mind – testing out xTool, mortgage shopping, dealing with website issues caused by Shopify 2025 updates, onboarding with adsumo, talking to ECFer Adam about influencers and content creation, etc etc.

John messaged me to wish me happy v day and thank me for everything I’ve done for him. I said likewise. I had not thought about him for a while. For a brief moment I felt a bit bitter…like, he is probably happily enjoying his new relationship because he doesn’t have to stress about money, and yet, he got there cuz of me. But then I was happy for him. I wished we were compatible, but then, do I really? I can’t imagine being with anyone anymore lol. She who remains single and free WINS!

I’ve been watching Modern Family, and, while it’s an excellent and funny show, I was so happy to be take part in that in real life.

Yes I’m becoming more self sufficient and more selfish. That’s the progression of the world – I’m just here first. Just like I was at “child-free and loving it” first. I want communities, but can’t stand people. Robots will fill the void soon. They will be patronizing, encouraging, trainable, capable, reliable, engaging, present. They will be the best friend / parter / family we wish we had.

Another surprise was Brian messaging me a funny video, followed by wishing me a happy valentines. Well, I remember he messaged me a couple years ago on V day. We were flirty back then. Now he mentions going on dates and hitting on girls to me, so, I’m surprised that he wished me happy v day. I wouldn’t be surprised if he said that to a few girls though lol. I was a little turned on, but reminded myself that there’s never gonna be anythingn romantic with him. He has a nasty personality that I saw a glimpse of, twice. I don’t like it at all.

How I spent my V day? Well, same as the past few days:

Watched my CGM like I’m day trading; ate my new invention of sardines, avocado mayo, kimchi, sauerkraut, MCT oil, butter, and olive oil for breakfast (love it!); morning skincare routine; worked; went for a walk, ate more meat (tacos today!); watched modern family (so good!); took a post-dinner nap; masturbated (still wet and healthy!); doomscrolled before and after nap.

 

 

 

 

Michael – email marketer

I had my audit meeting with Michael today, and he was very thorough!

He spent an hour going through his process, and at the end it was $3000, which was cheaper than Max ($3500 + $300 for SMS), but his set up fee was higher ($2500 instead of $1500).

I said right then that I like how he thinks and he’s very detailed and authentic, so let’s do it!

After that was settled, he asked me what I thought of AI (because I had just mentioned using a custom gpt). We went on to talk for another 1.5 hours!

I’m smitten. I’ve never met someone who is ALSO interested in tech (AI, VR, CES), marketing, entrepreneurship, biohacking, manifesting.

We basically have the same algo hahaha

He’d tell me something he’s seen, and I’d tell him something similar I had seen.

If this was a first date, in person, we would’ve hooked up so hard.

But now we have a biz relationship, and he is probably half my age lol. I figure he is 21 or 22.

Funny he said he wish he was born 15, 20 years earlier, when Shopify had just started. I said, I was there! I left it at that.

Oh and he seemed to really like that I can speak Mandarin.

I think he felt something too. Yes he is charismatic and he might be paving way for a video interview on his channel where I’d brag about him and praise him in front of him lol. But a girl can dream…even at 44 lol.

I know no one is perfect, but, I feel like I’ve finally found someone who is gonna like all the things I like. We can watch the same shows, have same friends, discuss stuff we both like, all the time. We seem to think almost the same way about everything.

And he is funny!

At one point my CGM started beeping non-stop.  I checked and realized the FIR heater was heating up my sensor too much lol.

I explained to him what was going on and that the sensor kept beeping if it thinks I’m dying lol.

We started talking about biohacking, and he said he tried something and his friends were fine but he was foaming at the mouth lol.

Then he said he tried something that’s a spray. Made him less tired and more productive. I was confused for a sec and eventually clued in that it was a mouth spray.

We joked about it being a cologne, and someone on the downwind would also get productive.

I say I’d go to the office and spray my team. He said, “Just say it’s Fabreeze…Team Fabreeze” hahahha

Oh the great date we would’ve had!

Not that I wish he’d live here. He’s so cute, well adjusted / outgoing, and smart. He probably gets dates no problems. (Who knows, maybe he already is in a relationship. Maybe that’s why he is moving to Tampa.)

If we went on a great date, and ended up dating, it’ll eventually fall apart, and he’ll easily find someone and I’ll have a hard time seeing him in real life.

It’s like with Alex except Alex is not as cute or well adjusted as him.

Basically he is the cutest of Alex, Brian, and Austin, but he is also the most similar to me.

Of course, I barely know him. And no one is perfect.

I’m just relishing this moment of him being perfect in my mind, and we had this perfect meeting on zoom.

I love that so far he’s been taking the time with me in our 2 meetings. We’d go off on tangents together. He’s show me stuff via links, and I love that. I try to praise him often because I want him to feel valued.

Oh yeah, and I put on makeup for him lol. First time it was out of wanting to have more of a pretty advantage. Second time it was because I wanted to look cute for him cuz I like him. I put on a bit too much makeup and oil, and there was no preview in zoom, unlike google meet. So I was a bit shocked when the video came on. I don’t know if he thought I looked overdone and greasy and trying too hard lol. I hope he thought I look hot and had glass skin. The sun was hitting my face and I kept moving my chair away from window. I was glowing.

He looked just as good as first time. He has perfect skin, teeth, smile. His hair looked like someone from my generation at this age, instead of the alpaca hair of the kids in his generation. His name is also of our generation.

He remembered the little things I said from the previous meeting too. I like that. Keilor was like that.

I think right now both of us just hope that we’d have a fruitful start on my account. I’m quite sure we will.

And in the mean time, if he is interested in me, I’m sure I’ll know. He’ll probably send me more links that we both like.

How I’d love to go visit him in Tampa when he moves there. Imagine going to DisneyWorld with him instead of Austin.

Though I think 20something year-old entrepreneur boys are my sweet spot. I think they ware cute, they think highly of me too, and we have the same interests haha

 

Michael email marketer; Mom’s house mortgage; Austin ECF Live Mastermind; iFly

I used to have the patience to write down these moments….but now I’m unmotivated and distracted. I wonder if it’s my age or the age we are in lol.

I recorded some whatsapp voice messages to Cyndi and I feel like it was the easier way to sum up my ECF experiences with stories and how I felt.

But let me sum it up briefly here:

ECF Live Mastermind in Austin Texas

  1. so much fun! Laughed so hard. Especially like Ross (moneybag guy) and Lianna (great sex robot impression hahah). So really like Garrett (very nice guy, worked at google, scaled to $10M in 4 years) and Michelline (who drove us). Danny is nice but his product is just so lame. Luke (bald guy) stayed at the same hotel as us but I didn’t really get to know him. Mark (pretty good looking but kinda older kiwi who sells camping gear) – got to chat with him more this time. Shane is very smart (fat guy).
  2. Did I learn much? Learned about amazon backend keywords being phrases separated by semi colon, and decided to a/b test Amazon inserts with the goal of acquiring emails. I don’t know if these are huge…but it’s something. Mostly the laughter.
  3. OH! Toured Sunil’s factory, which was AMAZING! Ok yes that’s very fruitful. The orders/hour math was great.

Stories:

  1. Lost my phone on uber ride to Hampton Inn. Thank GOD that the concierge Javier helped me out. Got the phone back. Paid $60, but later on I reported to Uber and Uber refunded me $40.
  2. Had a meet-cute moment with Tony, guy on the flight back. He was quite cute and thought I was amazing. But, I think he was in his late twenties, and I intimidated him with my accomplishments. He didn’t get my contacts in the end. He was part Portuguese, Fijian, Samoan, and German. Sigh. I so wanted to make out with him!
  3. Ross had a story of his Uber driver picking up an old guy, who wanted to go to Chick fillet, and was gonna pay for her. She said ok, but as they got there, he realized he didn’t have his wallet. So she dropped him off at his place. He got his wallet, and still wanted to go to chick fillet. She did that, dropped him off after. Picked up another passenger, and the passenger found the old man’s phone on his seat. She drove back to the old man to return it to him. Then, pick up the next passenger, who found the old man’s wallet. LOLOLOLOL
  4. Javier lost his phone on the roof of his car during his first week in America. He had to wait a year before he can get his next phone, when his mom came to visit him from Columbia.
  5. Javier’s family (15 or so ppl) all count on him having their IDs and insurance papers etc.
  6. Javier and his friend are also Amazon drivers. One time his friend’s car was stolen. He suggested tracking it down through the app. They found the car parked 5 minutes away. They had to hopped the fence to get to it. The doors were all unlocked. Turned out the car thief just wanted to steal the Amazon packages!

iFly:

  1. I love it! I flew 4 minutes on day 1, had the event on day 2, then on day 3, went back for 10 more minutes. I bought 10 more minutes. I think this is gonna be my sport! I wish we had one in Vancouver.
  2. I learned to balance, move forward, backward, and turn!

New House; Mortgage:

  1. I’ve been talking to TD, True North, Vancity, CIBC, and ScotiaBank. Hopefully will get a great rate!
  2. I don’t like having to spend money on this. I want to invest it to get more money in stocks. But, that’s what money is for! Mom wants the house. I get to buy it for her.

Michael from AdSumo email marketing:

  1. I had a great chat with him! He sometimes answered my questions in an awkward way…like, not really having a point, and had some tangents. It reminded me of how I talk sometimes. For example he randomly mentioned that he worked at a chimney company when he was 19, and he became the VP because the owner got sick. (Everything about that was so unusual lol.) When he said he was moving to Tampa, I said, my friend lives there and we’re gonna go to Racoon Island in Miami! I’m even more awkward, yes.
  2. But he has some good ideas, so I think he is smart. He said our type of product doesn’t thrive on LTV, so we gotta get them at the welcome pop-up. 100% correct and very insightful.
  3. He also said that for the welcome pop-up, we ask a question, and then we can give them different welcome flows depending on their answers. Love it!
  4. He said he wants to build a boutique agency, and have fewer clients, but do more (e.g. content as well) for each client. I like that. I can see us working together like that. He is younger and potentially way better at creating good content.
  5. He sited RXBar, Ridge…I got excited talking to him about these
  6. He showed me the Traffic x AOV x LTV slide, and I got so excite. I said yes yes that’s what I preach all the time! I said, except in my version I added Conversion Rate. He thought that was a good idea and added it to his formula.
  7. He recommended a book he is reading, and sited some brands (Pouble is one). He gets me. I really like him!
  8. Also, he is super cute! Omg. He reminds me of a 20yo Christian Slater, but way cuter. He has more of a heart shaped face, like Leonardo Decaprio, which is not my favourite. (But when Leo was young, he was also adorable and perfect.) My favourite is John’s face shape, or Paulie’s face shape (or his entire face lol). BUT, him being young, cute smile, perfect skin, and interested in the same things in the biz world as me – I can talk to him all day and make out with him in between! He is an 8 out of 10. Even cuter than on youtube.
  9. I wonder if he was at all attracted to me. I didn’t wear foundation, but I did put on eye makeup and centered my hair line AHAHAHA
  10. It’s like talking to Austin! My favourite people to talk to are these driven 2o something yos. So young, so cute. But with Austin there was no sales layer, so it was more pure interest in each other that way.
  11. If they permed their hair and got the alpaca hair instead of military hair, they would be even more cute.
  12. If I was smoking hot maybe I can get both of them when I go to Tampa ahahahhaa. Or if I was 20 years younger lol.
  13. Maybe these 20 year olds are too busy building biz they don’t have time for a gf, so they’d be up for a fun time? Just once each lol.
  14. I really hope that the audit is great on Friday! And that his price would be good ($2500 good).
  15. I really didn’t like Max, the other email marketing guy. I don’t like his zitty and square face either. I hope his referral of Michael works out though!

Continuous Glucose Monitor:

  1. I finally put it on! It has a 1 cm needle which was scary to punch into my arm, but it actually didn’t hurt.
  2. I put it on 2 days ago.
  3. My blood glucose is relatively high considering I’ve been eating stakes, pork hock, kimchi, and saurekraut for the most part! Went up when I ate a jam cookie. Went super high today (10.6, which is out of the 3 to 10 range) when I ate some Mary’s organics cookies without peanut butter (protein). Crazy. Very insightful though!

Tomorrow I’m looking forward to a snowball fight with Dips, Nicole, and other friends!

John called today and we talked for a while as I walked my daily 8~10k. He wants to be $100M rich. I’d like that too.

I causally asked Brian if he knew how certain memes were made. He got all defensive saying he doesn’t use social media, it’s below him, and “what do you want from me”. Holy shit. I was reminded of how abrasive he can be. Thankfully I had no crush on him anymore. I just calmly asked him if everything was ok. We carried on and he told me about these young dropshippers making $200M/month selling stuff by piecing together trending TT videos promoting a certain product. Fuuuck. So “greasy” yet, such a great way to make bank.

I want to make lots of money. $10M biz revenue this year. And I want to do it in a way that I can feel proud of.

Adam, a guy from ECF wants to exchange notes on organic content, influencer marketing, UGC. What can I share?

  1. Brian’s story about the dropshippers
  2. My plan to seed influencers + add them as our affiliate.
    After site launch:Tactic 1:
    Influencer Seeding:
    Stage 1: find influencers who fit this criteria:
    – dm or email 100 a week and see how many we get back. Goal is to get 200 influencers’ content a month ($2500 investment) AND saturate a niche or more than one. Might need multiple accounts to do this so as to not get blocked. Will send out messages from the @knotheoryring account first.
    – we’ll also add this to our website and our affiliate app page
    – nano or micro influencers
    – high engagement or great quality content or just good looking rizzy ppl
    – is our demo already interested in our rings (e.g. just engaged, already a silicone ring wearer, happily married, gym goer or has a job that requires it or is a young mom or has a disease finger swells up or knows someone with the experience of losing or almost losing their rings)
    – bonus: wants to share us on their social. dm “ring” to get the code for X% off ring (also their affiliate link??)
    – can grant us rights to using their story as ads
    – target a specific influencer niche (e.g. Equestrian) to saturate that nicheAsk Kat:
    1. how many dms can we send without getting blocked? can we / should we create a couple more IG accounts
    2. TT and IG. Response rate?
    3. what was our agreement with Rachel for using her content as ads?Stage 2: for influencers whose videos worked great as ads:
    – pay $100 for each videoTactic 2:
    In-house UGC:
    1. Hire actors with rizz who are or look like our demo, who have the lifestyle (e.g. home decore) of our demo
    2. Give scripts and get 20 videos per month (about $3K investment)
    3. Chop them up to create modules to use to create tons more videos (Sean Frank style), so we can create 60 pieces of videos to use and to test. I like those “montages” of various good looking people giving reviews like Halara ads
    4. Give these actors “role model content” (discover successful ads by nudging/encouraing our algo or by looking at similar products on FB ad library, successful TT influencers who are making great video content – mention those dropshippers) to help them succeed, so they know the vibe to create and imitate.
    5. We have some pretty good ones from Billo, but only 3. Billo seems better than Collabstr. (Better than Stack Influence because they weren’t paid)

    Tactic 3:
    Give these content (UGC and influencer videos) to our affiliates (who are not in these videos), so they can use these videos (and create ads with them on their money). We might need to add a clause saying they can’t butcher our content.

2025 Vision Board

I woke up excited about the new year!

Maybe it’s my menstrual cycle (period just ended), maybe it’s from me masturbating 4 times last night cuz a cute guy on the plane was into me. Either way, I’m excited about what’s to come!

Love

I’d like to have fun and sincere flings with cute guys. Guys that look like Elijah Kim, Paulie, and Dodi! Yum!

Health

Have vitality, focus, stamina.

Smart, clear head.

Great immunity.

Healthy, lubricated joints.

Healthy eyes

Positive outlook

Beauty

I want to look like a hot 25 yo!

Fox eyes, shorter philtrum, toned body.

Smooth, supple, cellulite-free, moist skin.

Clear and plump face skin, radiant, small pores.

Hair

Mindset / Mental Wellbeing

Upbeat, excited, light hearted.

Can forgive and let go.

Can play without holding back.

Finance

$20M networth this year!

Business

Grow to $10M revenue.

Profitable (10% ~ 20%)

Still simple to manage.

Relationships

Have friends who are interesting, fun, funny, loyal, inspiring, good influence.

Have friends who spend time with me.