I’ve come to my wiser sense.
There’s no rush in finding a husband.
If I find one now, and we spend the rest of our lives together, that’s upwards of 50 years together!
That seems almost unbearable. Or, unlikely.
Chances are people change, grow, and in different ways.
People are always breaking up and meeting new people, at any age. People find their soul mates at any age.
So, I’ll relax a bit.
I’ll still look, but I won’t feel so stressed and desperate about it.
My goal is to be with someone amazing who makes me happy, and vice versa. We’ll grow together. We’ll learn cool stuff from each other.
We may or may not last forever, but our time spent together would be well spent.
Even with the brief time I spent with Jeffrey, I learned a few things. I got influenced too. I like pineapple prints now, I like having plants, and I am making a vintage map! It’s crazy how much he influenced me.
Lots of people in the soulmate book have met later on in life. They had kids of their own before meeting too.
Having kids is not a deal breaker. And meeting later in life might be a blessing.
Maybe after Jeffrey has had kids, and I have settled down more, we can be together.
I love most about how he loves. He is so loving.
Even if it’s not him, I’d love to find someone who loves me so deeply and sincerely and consistently <33