Third date with Jeffrey. We did yoga, looked at old China and old furniture, picked up my mug at 4Cats.
Not sure how to feel.
He works very slowly, unlike any other guy.
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Well, that was how far I got before getting distracted and checked out what Capricorns are like. They move very slowly, yes. “Don’t be surprised if you get a peck on the sixth date,” these sites say.
I messaged to thank him for the fun day. He messaged back saying thank YOU, and that I was good company.
Overall I was left very confused. I thought we’d kiss by this date. I thought he’d say something about seeing me bald for the first time today.
I slept for a few hours. Yoga was tiring!
Then talked to Mom about how I didn’t know what to think about my date with Jeffrey, and my doubts.
He likes old and old fashioned things. I like new and futuristic things.
Though, I thought he was smarter than my first impression of him. And, he seemed like he could potentially be a good complement to me. He is supportive, interested in my biz (and asked good questions). Even though he isn’t an entrepreneur, he is interested in starting a biz. At the same time he has a stable, well-paying job, doing what he is really good at. His bonus was $21K in stocks! Plus he gets $500 every 3 months to eat anywhere in Yaletown. That’s pretty cool.
I thought he was funny, and I like his personality. He talks to strangers easily, has no qualms about trying things like yoga, and is optimistic and kind.
Before going to bed, I messaged to wish him a fun day at Whistler.
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Today, I woke up late, and was sore. I had to lie down a couple times. I was horny. Had some good orgasms. It felt weird. It felt like I had real sex.
Orgasms are pretty amazing. Different feeling all the time.
He didn’t message me all day. I figured it’s because he was busy skiing.
But later in the evening, he msg’d back. Said he didn’t go skiing. He spent the day unpacking instead. Suddenly I felt kinda shitty. Why the heck didn’t he message me all day? He mentioned getting more matches on Bumble…I thought for certain he went on a date today.
I said to myself I don’t want to date anyone anymore. I thought about how silly it was to think about messaging my friends to say nice things about me to Jeffrey, when they meet him at my bday party.
I prepped myself a bath with Himalayan salt, baking soda, and some essential oils, and listened to Louise Hay, to cheer myself up.
I felt so sad. I wanted him to like me. But he is a good catch. He has lots of options. Fair enough that he’d go on more dates. Maybe my baldness scared him away?
I swiped a few more guys, chatted with a guy on OKC.
I felt better after the bath, and I saw 3 messages from him. He said he wanted to let me know that I was DA BOMB. Hmm….plot twist!
He said he felt that we should’ve kissed…but he thought it might’ve been weird. He said I was unlike anyone he’s met, and that he is smitten.
Wow. Really? I really wouldn’t have guessed, based on how unemotional he seemed during the date, how he hugged me twice when we parted seemingly because I probably looked disappointed. How he didn’t message me after the date until I messaged him. And how he didn’t message me all day.
He said he super liked me, and that he’ll be more forward with his feelings from now on. He said I looked gorgeous.
I’m turned on. I’m starting to imagine a future with him. Could he be the one?
What an unexpected turn of events.
I learned that he loves Futurama. That’s awesome 🙂