I’ve learned a lot from dating John and sexing Alex.
Basically, I want someone who is the best of John and Alex.
And most importantly, we love each other. We want each other equally much. We make each other happy. We make each other laugh! We bring out the best in each other. We enhance each other’s lives. We are great by ourselves, but we are a force when we are together!
What I want, that John and Alex don’t currently provide:
- Want me as much as I want him – physically and emotionally
- Will go the extra mile to do something for me – to make me happy, to take care of me, to make me feel desired
- Loves how I look without a wig as well, and shows it
- We are each other’s best friend
- Laughs at my jokes and makes jokes that I laugh about
- Attentive to my needs
- Emotionally available
What I like about John:
- Reliable
- Sincere
- Not greedy
- Has my best interest at heart
- Stable mood
- Great temperament
- Will keep himself in good shape
- Has athletic resilience
- Won’t cheat
- Doesn’t need/want kids
What I like about Alex
- Funny
- Smart
- Outgoing
- Great conversationalist
- Social
- Playful
- Good outlook on life and when facing challenges
- Up for trying new things
- Amazing sexual compatibility with me – physical and chemical
- Passionate in bed
- Has touch as a love language
- Competent
- Resilient
- High EQ
- Is a playmate (can do fun things together, I think)
- Good at marketing
- Good at biz
What I don’t like about Alex
- Not always reliable
- Can be moody
- Maybe: vindictive
- Wants to be covered in tattoos
- Wants kids (well, I like that but it’s not compatible with my future)
- Can cheat
What I don’t like about John
- Doesn’t like to touch nor being touched
- Doesn’t like to try new things
- Is not adventurous
- Gets hung up on the bad
- Health issues from sports injuries
- Isn’t social
- Isn’t a playmate