After saying Merry Xmas to Brian, we started talking again.
He is visiting Taiwan and Thailand these days.
I learned that he went to see a doctor in Taiwan for a. mild hernia, and a dentist in Thailand for root canal. Wow. Very unsexy haha.
I’m definitely a lot less attracted to him this time around. If last April he kept the convo going, I would’ve felt a lot for him. Let’s revisit reasons why I would never, ever make out with him or date him:
- Not reliable / bad etiquette – Didn’t show up to my Noveween 2022 party and didn’t say anything.
- Bad temper / blunt – When I joked about it months later, he got mad and expressed it without holding back
- Not a thoughtful person – Didn’t warn me about crossing the border for ECF Live in 2023
- Not a grateful person / took my idea without acknowledgement – Used my idea of hiring an agency while doing things in-house to speed up TT success, and totally forgot that he copied my idea
- Conceited – thinks he is smarter, thinks he is a visionary
- Negative / cynical
- No affirmation / no compliments – dismissive
- No physical touch
- No quality time – never wants to hang out one on one
- Hardly laughs or smiles
- Cold personality
- Doesn’t seem to have a strong sex drive
- Wants kids
- Wouldn’t dedicate time for a relationship, from the looks of it
- Has a ton of health issues, including bad eye sight, root canal, hernia
- Disappears when there’s discomfort/conflict between us
- Doesn’t take much of an initiative to show that he is interest – not asking me out, invites me to his event and doesn’t talk to me
Smart, funny, successful – but how undatable he is!