Finding a partner

I read an article recently about men in their 40s in NYC. Many are single and don’t know how to meet a woman.

They said that women their age want to date guys 10 years younger than them.

They also said that all women want tall guys. One guy sited 3200 women stating that in their Tinder profile. He said that in person they aren’t as picky, but online they all want Thor. I tend to agree. I don’t know why that is, but it’s true.

Imagine that this is what women in their 40s are doing and thinking. That’s me, 5 to 10 years from now.

I saw Lani at Action Labels today. She is probably at least 45. She looks pretty young. She is single, to my surprise. She said that friends try to intro her, but she didn’t feel any connection with the guys.

Mean while, I’m looking at people around me….no one has found love…except, well Summer is getting married…yes she’s found love. And Jason is getting married, and, he is just in an ok relationship I think.

Summer found a good guy. And think it’s such a good match because her dad helped her. Sum’s Dad, can you help me too?

I want a guy who

1. Will always love me and never cheat on me

2. Makes me laugh

3. I can have an inspiring, intelligent, fun conversations with

4. I find attractive

When I think about it, the only person who can potentially meet all these is Tyler. But he is spoken for. What about Jackson? I don’t know him yet… he seems extreme from what Norm told me.

Matthew is all of the above except #1. Also he is shallow so #3 is not exactly met.

My ideal guy looks like Josh or Patrick or Matthew.

Whom I enjoy talking to like with Tyler.

Who makes me laugh like Tyler or Matthew.

Who will always love me and never cheat on me.

I’d love to roam the world and win at life with this guy. I’d love to know what true love is all about and be loved the same way.