Matthew, Nicole, FedEx

Matthew messaged a pic to me today. Just a Cartem’s donuts blackboard with a hopping bunny (since it’s Easter-ish still).

I messaged back about bunny-shaped donuts. We messaged a bit about whipped body butter and his biz, since Nicole was coming over to help me make them (‘cept she forgot the blender).

I’m surprised he messaged me. It’s kind of sweet. But, he was not flirty in his response. Like he is missing me / has me on his mind, but not horny.

Nicole brought the yummiest yam gnocchis and pesto from Zara on Granville Island.  She forgot the hand-held blender which we were gonna use to make whipped body butter.

At around 5:40, I suddenly remembered that I was supposed to pick up money from Martin, so she drove me there in a rush, Thelma and Louise style. Then she drove me to FedEx to pick up 5 giant boxes containing 500 bow tie boxes. She’s a good friend 🙂 I’m lucky.

We talked a lot about dating, sex, contraception. She is so careful and cautious. In a way it’s good because she intro’d me to this contraception method using “Contragel”, an all natural spermicide, and “Fem Cap”, a silicone cervix cap.

The pull-out method (Matthew) is a bit sketch. Really shouldn’t be risking it.

She told me about her Tinder dating experience. She’s seen one guy so far, and isn’t too into him. Lawyer turned firefighter turned possible-IT-entrepreneur. Their dynamic is so different from me and Matthew…or me and anyone else. Just like Cyn and her dates. It’s interesting.

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