I woke up this morning and decided to send the exurb1a Instance 27 video to Sam.
He liked it 🙂
He asked me what I was doing today, I said I’d work a bit, then go for a walk if he wants to join me, and then help Ashley cook our big CNY dinner (for 14 ppl!)
He was keen to go for a walk with me. First time we spent alone time together was when we walked to the beach and he interviewed me. We had a lot of fun.
We met at the intersection, away from our apartment/house. It seemed like a secret encounter. It was fine by me because I didn’t want others to join us. Also, I have a bf and I don’t want to have to explain it.
Initially we said we’d hunt for costumes, but we quickly got bored. It was cold out at the time. No sun.
We went into Mojo and he had lunch while I had a smoothie. We sat upstairs and he read me the stories and poetry he wrote. Most of them are really funny. We laughed a lot. Gosh I had such a good time. It was perfect.
He told me he writes everyday, a lot of it recorded. He used to send that to his ex everyday when they were dating. Aw. I love the way he loves someone. I wish he was mine.
We talked about other people in the Tribe, the good and bad. We both pay a lot of attention to how people behave.
The sun came out so we went to the rocky beach and lied on some rocks. It was a rocky break water (different than last time). It was narrow. He lied down, and I lied down in the opposite direction with my head beside his head, and we talked. It was fun. I liked that a lot. He is so easy and fun to talk to. No friction. Just thoughtfulness.
I put a lot of effort into looking good this time, because it felt like a date. My mohawk is growing into shape now too. He wasn’t has witty today because he was hungover from techno night last night. He went with Ashley. I don’t think Ashley is a threat. I hope not. I think he likes just me.
On the way back, we walked side by side with our arms touching. Somehow we got to talk about sex. He asked me what kind of sex I like. When he talked about the more romantic, slow sex, he slightly stroked my arm….damn.
We talked about monogamy. He said he is a devoted monogamist if he is in a relationship, but if not then he doesn’t care. I sorta sensed that. He said he takes things slow if he is serious about it, then again sexual chemistry is important.
So far we agree on these important things.
We hugged goodbye. I made it a slightly longer and sexier hug. I really like him. 2 hours didn’t seem enough.
I went back to my bedroom and no one was there! I masturbated and took a nap.
I woke up at 5pm after a 2 hour nap, and went to help Ashley. She had been the mastermind behind this dinner.
I cut some chicken and fired some pot stickers. She did the rest.
We had eggplants with garlic, glassnoodles with prawns, chicken veggies stir-fry, and restaurant baught sweet and sour pork and satay beef. Plus fortune cookies, plus tom yum, plus a cake for Isadora’s birthday, plus lots of wine.
The meal was delicious! I was so glad that it turned out well. Kudos to Ashley.
We played a game called Disturbed Bunny or something like that. It was like cards against humanity except more gross. I sat beside Sam. I started the first card. Only Sam got my guess correct, of the 14 people. He was quite thrilled.
I always got his right and he always got mine right. Brittany and I won the game at 14 points.
He didn’t like the game too much though. At one point he said to me, “I’m gonna get nightmares! Can’t we just tell stories about Spacebunny and pterodactyls?” Aw. That’s cute.
All of us chatted a bit after dinner, and I decided to go home. Sam wanted to go too. At the door, he asked Ashley if we can see the pool. The three of us went on an adventure and found the pool on the 5th floor. It was beautiful!
Julia doesn’t want us to go, probably because of the noise, so we didn’t invite others. Ashley had to snuck into her house to get her swimsuit, while Sam pretended to have forgotten his earphones and came out with half a bottle of wine. I snuck out a towel. I felt bad leaving Robert behind.
We went back up and swam in our undies. Told stories. I was tired, but it was still fun.
Sam’s body is alright, but not amazing. But it’s always his sense of humour that wins anyway.
He is thicker. For some reason I thought I’d end up with someone thicker and less tall (He is 179.5cm). Also, I just remembered that my taro card with Cat predicted two goats/sheep. He is an Aries sheep.
Ashley was locked out so she came home with me.
I felt that Sam wanted to walk home with me alone. But that was fine. It was a short walk.
He’s been chatting with girls on Tinder and is going on dates soon. Sigh. I don’t like that. I want him to like me only.
I want him to tell me that he is into me. I want to tell him to wait for me, and I’ll wait for him. He is 26 now. When he is 30, he’ll be more mature.
He just seems to be everything I’ve been looking for. But he showed up too late. He was even born too late!