Hello Tanya!

Hi Tanya!

It’s been a while since we had a conversation!

Nice to have a date with you, talking about anything and everything we want to talk about!

You are very lucky. You know that?

The world is your oyster. Or, deluxe sushi with large pieces the fill the entire mouth, lightly toasted flan with fresh berries for dessert, plus cuisines from around the world haha

A fews things I learned recently:

  1. When you feel good, you pay it forward. When you feel bad, you pay it forward. This is how we do, as humans. So it’s important to make people feel good, and it’s important to be able to make self feel good. It’s essential to the world’s health being.
  2. We each have a value to a person. It doesn’t mean they are correct. It’s highly subjective to their perception of us (which could be very shallow or misguided), their own experience (and there’s no way for us to get the complete picture, because it also includes their take on their experience), and our relationship (chemistry, power dynamics).
    1. Some of these values include:
      1. Do they give me love? (to be loved)
      2. Do they inspire the love in me? (to love)
      3. Do they make me happy?
        1. As in, my mood right now (laughs, new mindset such as compliments, food, drugs)
        2. As in, help me become that person who is happier (can get what I want to get in life such as a cushier life, more attractiveness, more fulfillment)
          1. As in, physical changes (fitness, health, physical appearance)
          2. As in, internal changes (mental, spiritual fulfillment/englightenment, knowledge)
          3. As in, material gains (house, yachts)
      4. Can I make them happy? If I succeed, it’ll make me feel happy.
  3. Story telling has one of the greatest impact on another person. It’s also a fast way to connect with someone.
  4. We can tell any story about the same fact. From different angles, with different emphases. So make yourself an interesting person.
  5. A great way to make a story more engaging and fun and memorable is to re-enact something. Anything. Act out a dialogue, a facial expression, a movement, a voice, a sound effect.
  6. How we make people feel – That’s how we charm. that’s how we become the most attractive person. That’s how we become the most important person to someone.