Michael Rathman, Lenny the Miku server, Bunny Cafe with Tina

Had an epic dinner with the Hampton Vancouver Geo on Thursday! The sake and sushi night was so fun! I felt so rich.

We had 7 or so glasses of sake, and tons of sushi in their fanciest forms. Gold foil, caviar, and stuff flown in from Japan the same day.

Our server, Lenny, was not just a waiter, but also the person who planned out our meal!

He introduced each sake and each course.

When he spoke, I suddenly realized, he is CUTE! And his demeanour was very attractive….a blend of classy and stoic.

He has a slight British accent too. Very sexy.

Turned out he was from HK.

His hair was slicked back, which was unsual. At one point, I noticed that he was blading at the back, and was covering his bald spot with slicked back hair.

Luckily he has a strong face card! He was still cute.

He gave me his business card at the end of the night. I was caught off guard and turned on. But as I was walking home, I called Michael, my co-social-chair, asking, “Did you also get his business card?” and he did. Damn.

It doesn’t mean he wasn’t trying to slip me his number though. I still have/had hope. I emailed him this photo last night. Though so far I haven’t heard back.

I have been fantasizing about him. Yes he is a server / event host who has worked at Miku for 10 years. We are so different. But imagine how attentive he’d be! In bed!

If he replies, great. If he doesn’t, that’s fine too. He is balding lol.

I just want to play with him a couple of times.

I want to have flings, or, possibly, friends with benefits.


Michael Rathman is my true love though.

I’ve never felt so attracted to someone in such a way. But at the same time, I remind myself that, I barely know him. I don’t know his flaws. I’ve never even seen his full body!

No idea about his height.

Lenny is pretty short and lean. But his finger are nice and thick haha.


Went to Bunny Cafe with Tina! It was cute.

Then we went to Havana for coffee, then just had dinner there.

The server was someone that acted and looked so much like Alex Pinto! It was funny. He wasn’t as cute, but he was young and friendly. I felt that he was a bit interested in me. But, nah, kinda ugly. I was just drawn because it was as though he was cut from the same cloth as Alex haha


A little bit sad that Austin has got a gf and we won’t be going to raccoon island.

Also a little bit sad that Brian just skipped out on our monthly dinner without a word. So weird. I’m soooo glad we never got intimate!


This year’s sales have not be great. Website was broken probably due to Shopify updates. That’s now temporarily fixed.

I’m hanging in there with quite a bit of stress (not looking forward to doing taxes either).

But, as of 7 days ago, I started exercising daily, and waking up before 9am. Also have been fasting 15+ hours for 5 days now, including a 24h fast!

I want to manifest a great year with some great sexy sincere playful flings!