- Normal. Rather then showing my crazy, eccentric self, even my bold self. I’ll leave these for later. I’m realizing that hot, normal (but a bit quirky) people like normal people for the most part, and the easily accepted beauty. Heck, even I like that. I like someone who doesn’t dress to weirdly, act too weirdly, look too exotic right off the bat.
- Happy
- Traveller – where do I love
- Don’t want kids
- Love animals
- Don’t want one night stands
- Specific. Rather than being generic and leave it all ’til when we meet, I’m going to be more seemingly-specific. As in, specific, but still pretty lenient. This will help guys feel accomplished when they qualify.
What kind of profile would I like:
- Good looking
- Nice body
- Cool – has friends, dressed decent, cool hobbies
- Profile shows humour
- Good grammar and good command of English
- Is in a good place – happy, active, has decent income
- Reasonable requests – nothing too vein or too specific
- Has core values that align with mine
- Seeks the same type of partner – long term loyal relationship, an equal, a complement
- Similar hobbies
Tips:
- surfing and yoga
- tell stories
- be specific – my fave places to travel to
- smile with teeth in profile pic
- show flat stomach
- say “active” or “valuing health and fitness” instead of “have a fit body”
- instead of saying loyal, say you’ll be your partner’s number one fan
- say what your ideal weekend is like
- someone is trying to picture you in their life. talk about self 80%
- search ppl just like you and see who you are competing against
- show don’t tell
- Add bait: “I’m always up for a night of camping out under the stars (don’t forget to ask me about the time I was almost attacked by a bear!).”
- confident language: “the perfect man for me is smart, fun and handsome,”
- wear red
- just you in photos; 4 to 6 photos. 1 full body, 1 active, 1 head. You are as good as your worst photo
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Give a snapshot of who you are, how you live your life and the relationship you are seeking.
More tips:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/joshua-pompey/7-ways-to-become-the-type-of-women-men-fight-for-online_b_3796362.html
http://jpompey.com/ladies/profile-writing-service/
http://www.businessinsider.com/best-dating-profile-tops-2014-6
My ideal date….sex and talk, haha.