Last night I met up with Fin at Blenz by Commercial and Broadway.
He is from New Zealand and only here for another week, but I swiped right because he looked young for his age (he is 31 but looks 18) and his write-up was hilarious: “**** No regrets” -ex
I was so nervous about meeting up with him because, it’s my first Tinder date, and, what if I don’t like him!?
He was punctual. I was 20 minutes late…but he was good about it.
Walked into Blenz, whew, he is cute!
I loved his cute little nose. Delicate yet rebellious. A nose that Peter Pan would have. The shape of his face was perfect too. Oh and he’s got a really cute smile. His eyes smile when he smiles.
We talked for a bit. He is here for a wedding. He is well-travelled. He lived in France for over a year, getting his masters. He majored in environmental studies and later on international relations. He speaks fluent French. He would love to volunteer in protecting safari animals. He’s been an editor, editing country music. He currently works for the government, preparing stats for them for environmental conferences.
I didn’t expect him to be smart and interesting. That was attractive.
After chatting for maybe half hour, I invited him to come back with me. The most awkward thing to do, but we were both happy about it obviously.
My period just started, which is unfortunate…but he didn’t mind. We didn’t even make out on the way there. We just chatted.
Turned out he lived one or two skytrain stops away from me. We walked by the Starbucks near Gilmore, and he said, “We could’ve met here!” I said, “I know! But it’s too close to my place!” He joked about how awkward it’d be if it didn’t work out and he’d still follow me home, lol.
When we got to my place, we sat on the sofa, talked about how awkward it is…then turned to each other and started making out.
Moved to the bedroom. Felt a bit weird that it wasn’t Matthew.
One thing that I noticed that was a turn off was his BO. It wasn’t a totally disgusting smell, but it was pungent…
We had sex…at first it wasn’t nearly as good as it was with Matthew, but it got better.
The movements were awkward, and his body was not as hot. He wasn’t fat, but his shoulders were narrow and his body is kind of like Bender’s body. Surprising for a skinny guy.
After that, we showered. That helped control the BO.
Then we had sex 2nd, 3rd, 4th time. Each time it got better and better! He recovers so quickly it’s amazing haha. And he was really good at kissing, making out, and cuddling.
His hair was soft like a bunny’s fur! His skin was soft too.
Each time we talked, it got better. We had fun talking and laughing. He told me so many things about NZ, his childhood, his relationships.
He looks into my eyes a lot. He loved kissing. He loved it when I nibbled on his ear and bit his neck, just like me!
Then it was late, and he ask if I was ok with him staying. Last time someone spent the night was…Patrick, which was a year ago. And before that, Josh, which was 2 years ago.
We cuddled and talked for a while until I finally got up to finish some work.
I went back to bed at around 4am, and to my pleasant surprise, he woke up and said it was like I never left, and we started chatting, then making out, then “fucking”. I had a tampon in, but my wetness came through. He was fucking me between my thighs, which still felt amazing. I just love having a cute guy all over me. Plus he was stimulating me from the clit area, which turned me on too. It was best “sex” with him yet.
After a while, he said it was time for him to go. He could hear that the skytrain had started.
It was about 6:30am. Still darkish out. That’s good because I had almost no makeup on haha.
We kissed so much. He pinned me against the wall and wanted to fuck me some more. My head was hitting the wall though.
He told me how sexy I was. It was nice.
We kept kissing each other and could hardly peel away. Finally said goodbye.
It was a fun night!
I liked that Fin helped take my mind off Matthew almost completely. Sure his body is not nearly as good, and he has BO, but it was still pretty good time and pretty good sex. I let him use the unicorn towel. I poured the sugar daddy candle wax (which is also massage oil) on him. Matthew and I always lit that candle, though we never got around to using it as a massage oil.
I just love the intimacy in sex and chat, and Fin was good company.
It also took my mind off Andrew and I wasn’t as excited about him now. I’m sure I will be still nervous and excited before our date tomorrow.
