My dynamics with Brad is different. I call him instead of him calling me.
On Wednesday, I asked if he is free Friday. He said he has an evening meeting, and will find out what time it is the next day.
Thursday, I didn’t hear from him. Together with Amazon issues that caused my sales to drop dramatically yesterday, I was in an ultra shitty mood.
I swiped on Tinder and found 3 guys. I compromised a bit on the looks. There were no better looking guys anyway.
Turned out 1 was in an open relationship. Too bad because he said he dreamed of opening a bunny petting zoo before I said I love bunnies!
Another one went to ZhengDa University, which is in Taiwan. Interesting.
Another one is a chef and might arrange a taco date with him. He has a beard…but he seems the most wholesome and funny.
Interesting that, if Brad did message me on Thursday, I probably wouldn’t have tried to find more guys. The decisions that change based on someone’s 1 day delay in action. Kind of like exurb1a’s video Terra.
So Brad came by at 9pm. He was going to be early but I wasn’t ready. He looked a bit cuter today, with less product in his hair.
He was waiting by the door, which was cute.
I was wearing a blue and red plaid dress, because I figured he’d like that style. But then I remembered he can’t see the red.
He said I always wear the cutest outfits. We kissed for a while by his car. Kissed in the elevator. Kissed by the kitchen.
We were pretty passionate tonight! We kissed so much. And the sex was pretty good! Much better than last time. Probably because I got better condoms, and the light was dim.
We just had the kitchen light on, and a candle light. It was just right. And he looked better today…in part because I got more used to how his body looks I guess. He has such a cute ass, and long legs, and flat belly. His skin feels really smooth because he is essentially hairless. He has a nice tan, but he also has cute freckles.
We tried out oil sex, and he really liked it! Haha. Everyone does.
After that, we showered together, and kissed a whole bunch in the shower, like I did with Fin. It was passionate too, surprisingly!
He likes to eat me out, and he likes to get blow jobs. He actually came from that. That hasn’t happened in a while! I haven’t given blow jobs in a while.
We didn’t really take breaks to talk the first couple times. After sex, we hopped in bed, we’d start making out passionately again right away. Sometimes kissing under the blanket.
I like that he rubs my head sometimes. I like that he says I’m gorgeous. I like that he said my skin is so soft. That I’m sexy.
We are more passionate than the first time. The magnum condoms do feel better. Had his dick in me for a few minutes to see what it was like, and it felt so much better. He pulled it out fairly quickly though, saying it’s better to be safe.
He has trouble getting hard after the first two times, and was blaming the condoms. Not sure. Said when he was 18, 19, he can go 3 times without going limp. Yup, I’ve seen that! Sam was like that, at 25.
We talked about first relationship. His was when he was 17. The girl cheated on him after 6 months. What!
Later on I asked him about the marketing agency he went to. It turned out to be his biz partner Taz’s exgirlfriend’s agency. Impressive! He shared a lot of info with me. I appreciate that.
We looked at pictures of his dog, Koda. He is super handsome.
Tomorrow his mentally handicapped cousin organized a family bowling event. He showed me all the (same) text his cousin sent him. He was patient with him. It’s nice that the whole family is supportive of this cousin.
Brad is fun and affectionate. He is not super funny though. Or, not funny in the way I really like maybe. I don’t know. He did write well and his profile was funny.
I do look forward to seeing him again 🙂