I was dreading to go on a date with Steve! Because I was busy trying to find a new product to buy, and my previous date in Vancouver turned out to be the most boring date everrr. Oh and I didn’t think he was very funny or cute.
But I got ready, and met with him at Penny Farthing on Oak Bay avenue. I’ve never been! Only once with Lynsey when it was first opened, over 15 years ago!
I stood outside a minute early and messaged to let me know that I was blonde today. He showed up, and holy shit, he was way better looking in person, he was tall (maybe 6’3 or 6’2), and his body was fucking hot. Probably hotter than Matthew’s. (I just remembered how badly I wanted to meet someone with a hot body…when there was that guy I saw on Tinder who was visiting Vancouver and had a hot body..and I tracked down his IG and followed him. Steve has a nice body, and he is also cute…not photogenic at all, but very distinct look. I liked it! He has a cute nose and high cheekbones.)
I had tea while he had a beer. Right away he said I looked good. I said so did he.
We talked about lots of things. He was easy to talk to. He started an EMS fitness studio just 4, 5 months ago, with his savings from being a heavy duty mechanic. He’s had no help from his parents from the sounds of it…been on his own since high school ended. His dad already passed away and his mom and step dad both drink a lot. He is close to one of his 2 sisters though. He is the youngest.
He is very honest and gentlemanly and does what he set out to do (becoming the owner of a fitness studio!) and is fit. I really like all these qualities about him! Oh and he doesn’t get stressed. He seems very emotionally stable to me. Oh and he eats healthy, organic. Also I just have the feeling that he’ll be really sweet to me always.
We have pretty much the exact same juice recipe! And he dated a girl who had a mohawk! And his mom has alopecia! Very interesting.
He is 36. 2 years younger. We talked about what we wanted in a relationship. And….he kinda wanted kids. That made me sad. He tried to say that if he finds his best friend and soulmate then he is ok without kids. But, I already know I won’t force him. He was not especially playful or funny, actually. And his job kinda requires him to be in Victoria. I want to live in Vancouver.
We walked to Willows beach after. Sorta in the dark. We talked about spirituality, mushrooms. He was into all that. He even foraged mushrooms. Some would oxidize and turned blue green when you open them. I asked if animals eat them. He said he is certain that squirrels eat them! Ahahahah
A couple times he said I was cute. I really enjoyed being with him, glancing at him once in a while and liking how tall he was…just the right height. And his nice cheekbones. We laughed and talked ’til 11:30. 4.5 hour date. Not bad.
I gave him a hug in front of our house. I was on the sidewalk and he was on the road, so it was a good height difference to hug. He held me under my leather backpack, which was right above, almost my ass. We had a longish hug. He asked to see me again. I said sure. He messaged to say that he had a good time. The usual.
I masturbated that night. And it feels like for the first time since Matthew, I had a good orgasm. I had three more today. I imagined being in his strong arms. I imagined him eating me out, biting my neck, and that we have passionate sex. I feel that we’d have amazing sexual chemistry.
I want to try out his EMS technology. Because it’s supposed to rejuvenate your long and short twitch muscles. But I can only be his friend. Sigh. I’m ok with that I think. If he was really funny and playful, then I might not be ok with it. He seems like a purist though…which Tunjung said is the type of guys that is good for me.
In any case, I had a good time. It was a great date!